Creating Partnerships

How do you create them?
That is my goal for the new year.

I had the wonderful experience of re-doing my wardrobe with a friend. I got to learn that I bought clothes that were too big and I thought just right was too tight. We went shopping one day and it was fantastic, there was a synergy of purpose and while neither of us liked shopping, we had a good time. Suddenly I got while women liked shopping. It wasn't shopping. It was the experience with friends that combination of energy, unity of purpose and team work.

I want more of that in the new year.

This last year ends with the realization that one family partnership was bunk. And suddenly I had a profound feeling of loneliness. I didn't like that.

But how do you create them? What's the magic involved that occurs easily in some cases but like a flaky fairy fails to appear in others?

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